Sex. Bump-N-Grind. Getting it on. Smashing. Smushing. Freaking. Hooking-Up. I bet reading all of those terms made you cringe a little huh? I figured it would. Before I even get started,
I AM NOT A SEX EXPERT, A SEX PRO, A STRIPPER, A PROSTITUTE, OR A WIZARD. I'm just inquiring on why SEX, such a Taboo subject? Either we act like it doesn't exist, or we exploit it for profit. Even back in school, if the teacher said "Sex" everyone looked around like she had just pulled out her boob. Sex is natural (unless it's a threesome with a monkey), and is apart of being human, so why not treat it as such? This not only means recognizing it's existence, but respecting it's existence, as well. I'm not trying to get all up in your kool-aide, but have you ever heard the expression,
"Physically a virgin, mentally a whore."? We have all at least thought about sex (some more than others), but even when we think about it, we act as if it's a dirty thought that we should be punished for. It's actually the opposite, if you're 17+ and you're NOT thinking about sex then we have a problem. While doing research for my Kelly Rowland article I found out that in her VIBE magazine she said that at 30 years old she is finally coming into her own sexually, which makes sense because as you get older your body's desire for sex only increases. The point that I'm getting to is that Sex is a sacred act that should only be completed if you are of age and safe. So many people push sex into to the back of their thoughts, and when it does happen they are unprepared, ashamed, and most importantly
UNSAFE. I am in no way advertising wild orgies that involves other species (beyond being disgusting, it's illegal), I just wanted to say think those dirty thoughts, listen to those nasty songs, and become comfortable with yourself. Unless you're comfortable with yourself and the world around you, there is no way you can ever be comfortable with a future partner.
